
If you have a swingers lifestyle past and are not sure if you should tell your partner and need help deciding if it is the right thing to do, think about these three things:
1. Does my partner truly love me?
2. Will my partner leave me for this or be disgusted by me?
3. Sharing my secret worth the potential of damaging my relationship?
I believe honesty is the best policy. If you are with someone and they truly love you then your past should not matter. You may or may not be that person today. Plus, you never know maybe your new partner may want to take a ride into this particular lifestyle and you can be their tour guide.

When I can afford it I prefer to be waxed. Full body. It’s not that I mind the hair but I love the feeling. How do other men and women feel about oral sex and whether a woman or man is shaved or not?
San Marcos, Tx
I love men with chest hair and i simply adore a treasure trail, BUT i like shaved. It’s just not sexy trying to fing that hair in your mouth! -Angie
Fowlerville, Mi
I’m old and I can’t see as well as I used to..I don’t have a GPS tracker …please guys shave. And I keep telling you hard headed men out there ….it makes you look bigger. -Beth
New Iberia, La
I’m actually shocked by how many men lately have told me that they don’t mind women having a little hair. I’m like no shit! I think the general consensus here is shaved. But men on the street seem to not mind a little hair. -Jessica
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Moving from town to town every couple of months i meet interesting people but it leaves me with very little time to get to know them. I guess I’m trying to find some advice from others that travel. What methods work for you?
Pismo, Ca
Living on the central coast of Ca is wonderful but one of the biggest perks is being able to link with hotties that travel through the area for vacation. Lots of people like to play away from home where nobody knows them and traveling swingers are very much ready to play. Usually, we get an email a week or two ahead of time from someone who would like to meet. -Patricia
Macungie, Pa
About 75% of our mail is from single guys in town for a few days and wanting to get with my wife. We ARE seeking a single guy, but we want one that can spend more than a few hours with us. Try building a relationship before switching town will help. -Peter
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Really in need of ideas. We relocated to Texas and have limited friends, and no family in the area. If you have small children what do you do for overnight babysitters?
Duluth, Mn
I use sittercity.com. Its really great, you’re able to do background checks on them, if they don’t have one posted already. I have found many good sitters through them. – Carrie
Darbydale, Oh
It’s hard not having sitters handy. We didn’t start swinging until our kids were a bit older so we didn’t have that issue. After knowing each other for quite some time, our teens would babysit for another couple when we would all go out. It worked out really well. -Ivonne
New Castle, Pa
Yea we don’t get to stay out all night, just that simple. It’s called being a responsible parent. We try to get a sitter from 5-11pm, that is more than enough time for dinner and extracurricular. Also, we swing with other parents so its not really an issue. -Leslie
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Bryan, Oh
We are stocking lovers, especially pretty polly, those are my favorites to go with my heels and tight dresses wich drives him bonkers. -Reyna
Vineland, Nj
Wish there were men who have hard fetish pantyhose here in NJ. -Clair
Canton, Ga
Love women who enjoy wearing pantyhose and heels and enjoy showing off in public. Just wish you could find more in Canton. -Mark
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I see a lot of 30-40 somethings swingers when I go to swingers clubs or parties and even some in their 50’s. But where are the 60’s, 70’s and even 80’s year old? I’m just wondering why the population of Swingers seem to be skewed toward the younger set?
Savanna, GA
My husband asked me just the other day why I never want to hit on the younger ladies or men and I told him although their cute to look at …they do absolutely NOTHING for me sexually. I enjoy being with a woman who has experience and takes her time with every touch and same for a man. – Samantha
San Antonio, TX
We recently discovered that the “hardbody set” type has taken over. Over 40? Unwelcome. Don’t enjoy your music at ear splitting levels? Take a hike. So we decided to form our own local house party group in San Antonio, 50 + Swinging couples and we are growing rapidly. -Randy
York, Pa
One suggestion that has worked very well for us is attend events that attracts open-minded seniors such as yourselves. The best event I recently attended was called Fantasy Fest in Key West! -Jill
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I’d like to know, when you first started swinging did you have a hard time watching your spouse with another lover? If so how did you cope with this feeling?
Dallas, NC
I try not to go to that “bad Place” with it and just let it be what is…SEX, erotica, fantasy…. -Rob
San Marco, CA
“did you have a hard time watching your spouse with another lover?”
Your damn right it got hard….in fact just thinking about it now…… -David
Panama city, Florida
It wasn’t that hard to see my spouse with another woman, in fact it turned me on big time, if anything it has made the sex hotter, I now have learned another one of his fantasies. Check out my sex video right here and leave feedback -Monica
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